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A simple reminder

Aoozubillahiminasshaitannirajeem
Bismillah Hirahamah Niraheem

What do you say of a person who is lazy to fulfill his responsibilities at work
But complains when he does not get a promotion
What do you say of someone who does not follow the rules of the company
But expects his boss to like him
What do you say of someone who does not put full effort in his job
But expects a pay rise just because he had an intention of working hard
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If this is for humans, how much so for our Creator
We do not fulfill our obligations
But expect Him to give
We transgress and do not repent
But expect Him to forgive
We intend to do good, but do not put it into action
But expect Him to give rewards equivalent to us having done that action

Still He gives and He forgives
He is One Who Is Free Of All Needs
It is we who need Him.
Turn to Him, before it is too late.

Help me forgive

Aoozubillahiminasshaitannirajeem

Bismillah Hirahamah Niraheem

Ya Allah,

Help me forgive those who hurt me….

Not because they deserve my forgiveness
But because I need YOUR forgiveness

Not because they offended me
But because my insecurities might have caused me to get hurt

Not because the past hurts me
But because harbouring it in my heart affects my present and future

Not because it is easier to forgive
But because forgiving makes me stronger

My deen and my character

Bismillah Hirahamah Niraheem

What is the use of my religious knowledge if it does not refine me
And what is the use of a refined character if I don’t have religious knowledge
Ya Allah grant me the understanding of deen which helps me refine my character
And a character that helps me come closer to YOU with my deen.

A non-hijabi more religious…or is she???

Bismillah Hirahamah Niraheem
Found an interesting article on how Islam is both about gaining knowledge and practising it. It is relevant not only to the hijab but all other aspects of Islam. Made me rethink of how much Islam I know and how much of it I have really implemented in my life. May Allah increase us all in knowledge and may Allah grant us the tawfeeq to implement it. Ameen.

A non-hijabi more religious…or is she???.

The Power of Istighfar

Bismillah Hirahamah Niraheem

During his old age, while Imam Ahmed was traveling he stopped by a town. After the prayers, he wanted to stay for the night in the masjid yard because he didn’t know anyone in the town. Owing to his humility, he hadn’t introduced himself to anyone thinking that if he did, he would be welcomed by many people.

Failing to recognize Ahmed Ibn Hanbal, the caretaker of the mosque refused to let him stay in the mosque. Imam Ahmed tried numerous times, but the guard did not accept his requests. Frustrated, Imam Ahmed resolved to spend the night in the masjid yard. The guard became furious. As Imam Ahmed was quite old, the caretaker had to drag him out of the mosque. On seeing this, a baker from a nearby place felt pity for this man (Imam Ahmed) and offered to be the host to him for the night. During his stay with the baker, Imam Ahmed observed that the baker would constantly recite Istighfar (seek forgiveness from Allah). Imam Ahmed asked the baker if the constant practice of saying Istighfar had any effect on him.

The baker responded, “By Allah! No duaa (supplication to God) I made except that it was answered but one.”
“And what is that?” asked Imam Ahmed.
“To be able to see the famed Imam Ahmed Ibn Hanbal!” Replied the baker.
On this, Imam Ahmed Ibn Hanbal said that Allah had not only listened to his dua but had dragged him (Imam Ibn Hanbal onto his (the baker’s) doorsteps.
[Summarized from Al Jumuah magazine, vol 19, issue 7]

This story is a reminder of the power of saying Istighfaar (seeking forgiveness) frequently. Let’s remember that the prophet s.a.w used to say Istighfaar frequently during the day.

Tafseer Al-Qurtubi states:
A man complained to Al-Hasan about a drought, and he said to him: “Pray to Allah for forgiveness.”

Another man complained to him of poverty and he said to him: “Pray to Allah to forgive you.”

Another man said to him: “Pray to Allah to bless me with a child.” He said: “Pray to Allah for forgiveness.”

Another complained to him that his garden was dry. He said to him: “Pray to Allah for forgiveness.”

He was asked about it and he said: “This is not my personal opinion, for Allah says in Surah Nooh (interpretation of the meaning): ‘Ask forgiveness from your Lord, verily, He is Oft Forgiving; He will send rain to you in abundance. And give you increase in wealth and children, and bestow on you gardens and bestow on you rivers.” Tafseer Al-Qurtubi (18/301-302)
One of the narrators of a Hadith was asked about the manner in which forgiveness is to be sought, to which he answered: “The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) used to say: ‘Astaghfirullah! Astaghfirullah! (I beseech Allah for forgiveness, I beseech Allah for forgiveness)’.
[Sahih Muslim].

Aim to seek and gain Allah’s forgiveness during this Ramadhan.
Source : Al Huda Institute,Canada

Think again…

Bismillah Hirahaman Niraheem

While in college, I have always found a vast difference in my depth of understanding subjects which are taught by someone and those which I learnt on my own.  Also the food cooked by asking some experienced cook is more delicious than the one cooked by looking its recipe over the internet. That is why while learning we look for a reputed college with good staff and while cooking we rather ask our mother than learn every recipe through the internet.

Then why is it we don’t apply this to gain Islamic knowledge and are content with learning religion through some books or through the internet. Why don’t we really look for someone to guide us, one who is experienced and more knowledgeable in matters of deen and diseases of the heart.

Whoever gives up something for Allah, HE will substitute with something better

Bismillah Hirahman Niraheem

1.Whoever leaves begging people, asking them humiliatingly, and attaches his expectations to Allah alone, Allah will compensate him by better than that he has abandoned. He will bestow upon him freedom of heart, self-respect and dispensing with people ” he who seeks chastity, Allah will help him to be, and chaste he who seeks patience Allah will bestow patience upon him”

2.Whoever abstains from objecting to what Allah decreed, and acknowledges to his Lord in all his affairs, Allah will bestow upon him satisfaction and tranquility. He will show him good consequences, which may never come to his mind.

3.Whoever desists resorting to foretellers and sorcerers Allah will give him patience, and true commitment to Allah. He will get awareness with Allah’s oneness.

4.Whoever ceases to crave for the world’s benefits, Allah will recompose his affairs, make his richness in his heart, and the world will seek him forcedly.

5.Whoever stops fearing others than Allah, and singles Allah alone with apprehension, he will be protected from illusions, and Allah will provide him with security against any dangers, so his worries will be turned into safety, coolness and peace.

6.Whoever stops lying, and stick to truth in whatever he gets or leaves, he will be guided to Al-birr (piety, righteousness and each and every act of obedience to Allah) and he will be before Allah one of the Siddiqûn (those followers of the Prophets who were first and foremost to believe in them, like Abu Bakr As-Siddiq (may Allah be pleased with him). He will be blessed with the tongue of truth among people, so they would confer honor and supremacy upon him and will lend hearing to what he says.

7.Whoever leaves argument, even though he is right, he is guaranteed a house in the middle of paradise. He will be saved from the bad effects of importunity and antagonism. He will maintain the serenity of his heart, and be safeguarded from exposing his defects.

8.That he who leaves fraud in sale and purchase shall increasingly enjoy public confidence and his merchandise shall be in great demand.

9.That he who leaves usury and gaining bad money, Allah will bless his living and open before him doors of all that is good and blessings.

10.That he who abandons looking at the forbidden; Allah will compensate him with true discernment, light and clarity, and a joy that he finds in his heart.

11.That he who desists avarice, and prefers openhandedness and generosity, people will love him. He will become nearer to Allah and to paradise, and will be safeguarded from worries, gloominess and depression. He will grow increasingly in ranks of perfection and virtuousness {And whosoever is saved from his own covetousness, such are they who will be the successful.} [Surat Al-Hashr: 9]

12.Anyone who gives up arrogance and stick to humbleness will increase in dominance, prestige, and importance. The Prophet, prayers and peace of Allah be upon him, has said, as narrated by Muslim in his Sahih: “and who humbly submits himself to Allah, Allah will elevate him.”

13.That whosoever deserts the warmth and pleasure of sleeping and gets up to pray to Allah glorified and Exalted, Allah will compensate him with joyfulness, vitality and intimacy.

14.That whosoever gives up smoking, and all other intoxicants: alcoholic drinks and drugs, Allah will aid him and will provide him with His graces. Allah will compensate him with health and true happiness rather than that fake and transient happiness.

15.That whosoever leaves revenge and wreaking, despite his capacity to do so, Allah will bounty him with cheerfulness and ease in his heart, as forgiveness include tranquility, and self-honor, characteristics which are absent from revenge. The prophet, prayers and peace of Allah be upon him, has said: “the slave of Allah who forgives, Allah elevates him in the estimation (of the people)”, [Reported by Muslim]

16.That whosoever gets rid of bad companions whom he thinks that in accompanying them he will attain his utmost intimacy and pleasure, Allah will reward him with righteous companions, with them he will find pleasure and benefits, and by keeping their companion and association he will gain the best of this worldly life and the Hereafter.

17.Anyone who stops consuming much food will be saved from gluttony and other various diseases, because he who too eats much, drinks too much; hence he sleeps too much, the result is that he will lose a lot.

18.Whosoever quits procrastination in paying his debts Allah will help him paying them off. In fact he is really entitled to invoke Allah’s help.

19.That whosoever manages his anger will preserve his pride and dignity; and will keep away from the humiliation of apology and the consequences of remorse. He will enter in the company of the righteous {who repress anger} [Surat Al-‘Imrân: 134]

20.Whosoever abstains from backbiting and slandering people and looking for their flaws will be compensated with safety from their evils and is provided with insight into himself.

21.Whoever desists from imitating the fools, and turns away from the foolish will safeguard his honor, spare himself their trouble, and be saved from hearing what hurts him {Show forgiveness, enjoin what is good, and turn away from the foolish (i.e. don’t punish them).} [Surat Al-A’râf: 199]

22.Whosoever leaves envy will be saved from its various harms. Envy is incurable disease, a lethal poison, an outrageous behavior and an evil moral. It is found in inferior relatives, peers, comrades, acquaintance, and friends.

23.Whosoever is protected from having miss-suspicion of people will be saved from heart confusion and mind distraction. Miss-suspicion spoils affection, and brings about worry and embarrassment, therefore Allah Glorified and Exalted tells us to beware of suspicion: {O you who believe! Avoid much suspicion; indeed some suspicions are sins.} [Surat Al-Hujurât: 13].

24.Whosoever discards laziness and embarks upon hard work, his ambition will soar up, and his time will be blessed; thus he will gain a lot of good in such a short time. And he who deserts pleasures will get his expectations, and who is addicted to them will regret.

25.Who abandons seeking fame and exhibitionism, Allah will uplift him and fame will come to him dragging its wake.

26.Who avoids being undutiful to his parents and becomes filial obedient, Allah will be pleased with him and will provide him with children, and He will let him enter paradise in the Hereafter. Likewise, the one who avoids breaking off relations with his relatives, and maintain close and friendly relations with them, Allah will increase the means of his subsistence, and will extend his traces, and he is still supported by Allah as long as he continues keeping his relations with them.

27.Who abandons passionate love, and avoids the reasons leading to it; who bears the pangs and torment of the desertion and remoteness of the beloved, and turns wholly to Allah will be provided with consolation and comfort, self-dignity, he will be saved from the anguish, humiliation, and captivity of passionate love. His heart will be filled with freedom, and love of Allah Glorified and Exalted, a love that composes his heart and satisfies its hunger. As the heart is only pleased and content; it enjoys tranquility and serenity but with the worship and the love of its Lord and by returning to Him.

28.That one who quits frowning and sullenness, and is characterized with cheerfulness and smiling, becomes flexible and complaisant; and gains much loving friends and his enemies decrease.The Prophet, prayers and peace of Allah be upon him, has said: “smiling at the face of your fellow Muslim brother is an act of charity”. [Narrated by At-Tirmizi]

Source : Excerpts from https://xeniagreekmuslimah.wordpress.com/2012/01/02/whoever-gives-up-something-for-the-sake-of-allah-allah-will-substitute-him-with-something-better/?blogsub=confirming#subscribe-blog

Physical appearance

Bismillah Hirahaman Niraheem

Today I chanced to speak to an old friend of mine. In the course of the conversation she mentioned how her in-laws call her darkie just because she was a shade darker than her husband. I also remembered a grandmother who used to call her grandson a shorty because he was not as tall as his cousins.

It is mentioned in Quran Surah At-Taghabun “He created the heavens and earth in truth and formed you and perfected your forms; and to Him is the [final] destination.”[64:3]

Allah(Subhana Wa Taala)  didn’t say HE created you like HE said for heavens and earth but said that HE molded you. SubhanAllah! Who are we to comment on something which Allah perfected let alone criticize it. Think twice before calling people names based on their physical appearances – it is Allah’s creation. Also don’t be ungrateful by disapproving the way we are, by saying I could have been a bit taller or a bit fairer or a bit leaner, etc. Awoodhubillah may Allah protect us from this.